ive tried everything i can think of but the weird thing is i took out the fuse box and just fiddled with the wiring and put the fuse box back on and the fuse didnt blow for two whole days! anybody might know what the heck is going on?

 

Vinniesdad: I suppose there was a short right there on or near the fusebox and your fiddling fixed it. There may have been some dirt or moisture acting as a conductor and you successfully disturbed it.
It is also possible that there was a bad connection. Your separating and reconnecting may have cleaned the connectors of corrosion.