2011 ford explorer limited radio face plate
 

someone got into my suv and tried to get stereo and broke all the plastic trim and for shows it all as discontinued so where would i be able to find the parts i need

Not a very good reference
Wrecking yard's come to mind
Try LKQ auto
They are nation wide

If you can get the part numbers you can search for them on ebay or go to a junkyard and hope they have the same model/color as you. You may also be able find someone in your area who is parting out a vehicle.